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Deadly for refugee youth: emphasis on competition while ignoring isolation & bullying

Posted by Christopher Coen on December 7, 2011

It’s hard to imagine what its like for some refugee teenagers after we plop them down into our schools when they have little schooling, no English, and no knowledge of the local culture. Imagine not understanding how to get lunch or open a locker for weeks and no one notices. Or worse, being bullied or ignored by other students when adults make little effort to prevent that, or help students understand refugee teenagers’ plight. An article in The Salt Lake Tribune tells the story on young refugee that the refugee program and a school are trying for a better outcome with:

…For typical American teenagers, high school holds both excitement and liberal doses of adolescent angst. Now imagine being dropped into that social pressure cooker with little schooling, no English, and no knowledge of the local culture…

…Rising problems with drugs and gang violence, particularly among refugees in the 18-21 age group, has prompted the [Utah Refugee Services Office] to redouble its efforts with youth.

[Gerald Brown], the refugee services director, says he has attended four funerals for young refugee men in the past two years due to violence or drugs.

“We’re determined to do something about it,” Brown says. “There’s no single answer, but I think if we can put a lot of different things together, then we do have a real chance.”

Part of it is helping students succeed academically, he says. Too often, youths become frustrated when they cannot compete with their peers in school. They find other ways to stand out… Read more here

Posted in Karen, language, men, Salt Lake City, schools, teenagers, teens, Utah, young adults | Tagged: , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment »

Few resources for college-age refugees

Posted by Christopher Coen on September 30, 2011


Although there are between 400-700 refugees resettled to Lansing, Michigan each year, there are few resources for college-age refugees. Most of the services and agencies that cater to refugees’ needs instead focus on children and families. This leaves these young people resettled halfway around the world in a strange place and a vulnerable position — with no family or friends to support them. Luckily, in Lansing other young people have stepped forward to help these refugees. An article in The State News explains:

…[Kaba, a 24-year-old refugee from the Democratic Republic of Congo] never met his real family. As a child in Uganda, he was taken in by a Guinean man and raised in the Congo. Kaba’s adopted father raised him as his own, and Kaba came to know the man’s four children as brothers and sisters. In 2004, conflict arose in the Congo, causing Kaba and his family to flee back to Uganda. But before they could escape, Kaba’s father was killed.

Kaba said his father was the most important person in his life, and he was devastated by the loss. But there was little time to mourn his loss.

“We arrived in Uganda in 2005 in August, and in October I went (away) to work for six months,” Kaba said. “When I came back around (March 2006), I didn’t find (my family) at home. They were swift, they moved and they didn’t tell me where they went.”

For the next two years, Kaba remained in a refugee camp until he was selected for resettlement by U.N. officials in 2008 and was flown to Lansing….

…many refugees, such as Kaba, are resettled halfway around the world in a strange place with no family or friends to support them.

Suddenly, these young people have to learn how to live on their own, provide for themselves and to interact with people who speak another language, [Community relations and marketing director for St. Vincent Catholic Charities Julie Picot] said. Tasks that might seem simple, such as riding the bus or shopping at Meijer,
can be incredibly difficult to learn, she said.

But harder still is healing the mental and emotional wounds that have been inflicted upon these refugees before their arrival, she said…

But for refugees such as Kaba, beyond those essentials lies a desire for something more, something many refugees in his situation struggle to find —companionship.

Finding a friend

With between 400-700 refugees coming to Lansing each year, there are many services and agencies that cater to their needs, but the focus for most of those groups is centered on children and families, MSU alumnus Ken Chester said.

But there are few resources for college-age refugees,
Chester said.

Because of this shortcoming, Chester founded Refugee/Immigrant Young-Adult Neighbor, or RYAN, in 2008 based on the work he did as a student at MSU and a member of IVAC.

After working with a young refugee during an IVAC project in 2007, Chester realized this segment of the refugee population was being isolated from the rest of the community.

“The thing that really touched me was when he said, ‘You’re my only friend in the community,’” Chester said… Read more here

Posted in Congolese, Lansing, Michigan, St. Vincent Catholic Charities (Lansing), young adults | Tagged: , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment »

What’s going on with Sudanese youth?

Posted by Christopher Coen on December 7, 2010

There is an interesting article in the Alternet about the Sudanese community in Nebraska. This is the single largest group of former Sudanese refugees in the US. Many of the Sudanese youth are fighting and joining gangs. Reasons for this disturbing trend include their families’ migration from a homeland in conflict, a difficult to adapt to (completely different from their own) US culture, parents who no longer discipline their children due to US laws against beating children, to youth dropping out of school after schools place them in grades way above their education level. In addition this second generation of immigrants has learned English much more rapidly than their parents and are able to manipulate their parents’ interaction with other members of the community, such as school officials and the police.

..early 8,000 miles away from the violence in Darfur [and southern Sudan], Sudanese residents of Omaha are experiencing their own share of turbulence in this unassuming Midwestern city. And they’re fed up with it…

…Bruce Ferrell, a retired Omaha police officer, is the chairman of the Midwest Gang Investigators Association estimates that there are three Sudanese gangs in Omaha right now (More claims there are fourteen.) Ferrell said the first gangs in Omaha began in 2004–MJ, a Nuer acronym for “Dog Pussy,” and Afrikan Pride. Others followed, like MOB, GBLOCK, 402 (the area code for eastern Nebraska), South Sudan Soldiers, and TripSet. Gang members are mostly Nuer and Dinka, and, predictably, live in low-income neighborhoods. They are the children of refugees or are refugees themselves, coming from camps in Ethiopia, Egypt, and beyond, but ending up adrift in the middle of America…

…”They’re doing graffiti, they’re wearing colors, they’re identifying by specific group names, they’re participating in crimes that are against rival Sudanese gangs. We’re seeing that more [in the past year].”… Read more here

I think what is good about South Sudanese is that they have a strong identity and pride in their culture. Sometimes pride can also be a downfall – for us all – as in the old proverb “pride does often go before the fall”, but I think what’s happening here is a generation who doesn’t yet know who they are. Are they South Sudanese or America? Trapped between? Its a hard road to travel.

Posted in alienation-isolation, Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska, men, mental health, Nebraska, Omaha, police, school for refugee children, South Sudanese, suicide, teenagers, teens, young adults | Tagged: , , , , , , , , , | Leave a Comment »

 
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